31 December, 2008

2008: Year In Review

Just realized that it's been almost two months since my last blog entry. Figured I would do my own little recap of the year, personal, political, and professional.

Political:

Well we have a new President coming to town, the people of America have chosen a new leader for this country. In what was an historic election, the first black man to run and get subsequently elected, and the second time a woman was on the VP ticket, and the first time for the republican party. In an election that had plenty of vitriol spewing from all avenues, and outlets, or in your author's opinion, same bullshit, different election year. Both candidates and party's promising change, it remains to be seen. President-Elect Obama will have it a little easier, especially since he will have Democrat controlled congress. Obama will have a lot on his plate. A lot of pundits are throwing the blame at President Bush, some of which is justified, but you really can't blame Bush for everything that is wrong in this country. Sure his approval numbers suck, but I have always believed that history will look back on the Bush presidency and see it differently. We have not been attacked since 2001, and although we have not caught Bin-Laden, (which is where our focus should have been all along), he is on the run, and it is my hope that he is caught dead or alive, preferably the former.

Good luck Mr. Obama, you have a formidable task at hand, and it looks like you are surrounding yourself with smart and knowledgeable people, albeit a lot of Clinton Administration retreads, let's see if the change that you promise is more than a sound bite. Action speak louder than words, and action is what we need.

Personal:

Jen and I celebrated our 15th wedding anniversary in October.

Kim is now in seventh grade, texting and aiming her life away, but very active in both volleyball, basketball, and girl scouts. Earlier this year, she was confirmed by Auxiliary Bishop Robert Maginnis.

Michael is now in fourth grade, and posting very good grades. He is playing soccer and baseball. In fact his soccer team was undefeated this season, and they won a local tournament. He also started in Cub Scouts/WEBLOS, and has been on two camping trips, one of them earning his whittling chip badge, which means he can safely operate a pocket knife.

Jen is still teaching at Chester Community Charter School and still working a shift or two a month at Lankenau.

Fluffy, is still big boned, and spends most of his days either curled up in a ball or laying flat on his back, getting up only long enough to eat, drink, and poop. Although at night he does prowl the neighborhood doing God knows what, occasionally bringing us home a critter that he has killed.

For me, its been an up and down year. In July, I had a baclofen pump implanted to help with the muscle spasticity that I have been having. After the surgery, I spent a week, at Moss Rehab Hospital doing intensive inpatient rehab, then did six weeks of outpatient PT. I missed two months of work in the process.

I found out a few weeks ago, that I have to get my defibrillator changed, which will happen on 09 January. Ironically enough, my device started beeping Sunday morning indicating that the battery is running low. At the office visit with the doctor, he recommended that I get the device changed since the charge time was a little longer than he liked, so we set up the appointment.

Of course one of the highlights of the year was the Phillies winning the World Series. We actually attended about five or six games this year. What a season it was for the Phillies, and it was great to see them win it all, after so many disappointing years by the other franchises. The kids were real excited as well. Just this past Sunday, the stars aligned, and the Eagles snuck into the playoffs as a sixth seed.

Professional:

I am still spreadsheeting the days and sometimes nights and weekend away here at KlingStubbins. Earlier in the year, I went to our Cambridge office for a couple of days, on what was my first business trip. During the trip, Jen broke her foot, and was in a walking boot thingy for a month or so.

That's it, for this year. All the best to you and yours in 2009.

--gfo

05 November, 2008

Well The People Have Spoken

They wanted change, albeit 52%, and change is what they got. We will soon have Democratic President and Congress.

Let see if all their talk about change is rhetoric or if they actually put their words into real action. Otherwise, the American people can vote for change again and again. That is the beauty of our system of government, we the people have a voice and choose our representatives, even though we may not like who is ultimately elected, we the people can change that at any time

Just remember to those newly elected or those reelected not to forget who you work for, the people, not special interest.

Best of luck President-Elect Obama. You have a taken on a huge burden, and have a lot of expectations of you. We as a nation can only hope that you are as good a leader as you are a speaker, because actions speak louder than words.

--gfo

03 November, 2008

Eagles 26 Seahawks 7

After a slow start by Donovan McNabb, the Eagles offense though the had trouble in the red zone, prevailed over the Seahawks, 26-7

Second year tight end Brent Celek had a record setting game catching six balls, for 131 yards, a record for an Eagles tight end. McNabb ended the day 28/43 for 349 yards, with two touchdowns, and one interception (which was a pick in the end zone), after starting the game throwing balls in the dirt, or over the heads of his receivers he got his composure and starting throwing strikes to his receiver. One of his touchdowns was to offensive lineman Todd Herremans, who lined up as an eligible receiver, who caught a one yard pass from McNabb.

After the Seahawks came out firing, scoring on their first possession, a 90 yard pass to Koren Robinson, from backup QB Seneca Wallace, and the Eagles came up with four straight three and outs, it looked like it was going to be a long afternoon for the Eagles. The Birds managed to even up the score before the half, and then came up firing in the second half, and kicker David Akers added four field goals to secure the victory for the birds.

So with the Cowboys losing, the Eagles are now tied with the Cowboys at 5-3, with the 7-1 Giants coming to town next Sunday night for a prime time pivotal division game.

--gfo

31 October, 2008

Top Ten Things that Went Through Cole Hamels' Mind After Winning the World Series


Cole Hamels from the Phillies, read the Top 10 list on the David Letterman Show

10. Maybe I’ll get to be on “Dancing With The Stars.”
9. Can I wear my cup in the off-season?
8. The Rays collapsed faster than my 401(k).
7. How cool a name is Cole Hamels?
6. This must be how the Yankees used to feel.
5. Is the Phillie Phanatic hitting on my wife?
4. Seriously, how cool a name is Cole Hamels?
3. How can I celebrate when the nation’s economic output is the weakest it’s been since the third quarter of 2001?
2. I hope John McCain will start calling me “Cole the Pitcher.”
1. Now maybe I’ll get to appear on Leno?

photo/list courtesy CBS

30 October, 2008

WORLD SERIES CHAMPIONS 2008


The Phillies did it, last night in an historical game and in a true nail biter fashion, but in the end they prevailed over the Tampa Bay Ray 4-3 winning their second World Series in the teams 126 year history, and the first time 28 years. It also a Philadelphia championship drought of over 25 years, after coming close many times, the supposed curse of Billy Penn has been broken.

I am very lucky that I was able to remember the last world series win, I was 12 at the time, the same age as my oldest, and in turn we let both of our kids stay up and watch the continuation of the suspended game from Monday night, that started off with the Phillies batting in the bottom of the sixth.

Pinch hitter Geoff Jenkins got the party started with his lead off double, coming around to score, after being moved over to third on a Jimmy Rollins bunt then coming into to score on a bloop single by Jayson Werth, though the slim 3-2 lead was only short live when Rays outfielder Rocco Baldelli quickly tied the game with a solo shot to left in the top of seventh.

Not to be outdone, outfielder Pat Burrell hit a long double, his only hit of the world series, was replaced by pinch runner Eric Bruntlett, who came around to score on a Pedro Feliz single.

Then the Phillies Bullpen took over and shut the Rays down, with Brad Lidge getting his seventh save of the post season, and remaining perfect in save opportunities for the season.

It's a great time to be a Philadelphia sports fan. This is a great thing for the city and its loyal fans who have seen so many teams come so close only to walk away.

I am also happy that I could share the moment with my own family. It's a memory that will never be forgotten. I know I won't

picture courtesy of mlb.com

--gfo

28 October, 2008

BOOOOO

The game sucked last night, letting the game go on as long as it did is a disgrace. Bud Selig is such an asshole.

They league should have moved the start time of the game to 600. Sure it would have screwed up the prime time ratings, but at least they would have gotten the game in.

We have waited 25 years for a championship in this city, another day or two shouldn't be that bad.

And the umpiring sucked once again. The inconsistency of the strike zone for both teams has been abysmal. These guys are supposed to be the best. May be an eye test should be part of the screening process.

*RANT OVER*

--gfo

27 October, 2008

Three Down One To Go!

Well the bats really came to life last night in South Philly as the Phillies pounded the Rays, 10-2, winning game four of the world series, and taking a 3-1 lead. Heck even Joe Blanton the Phillies starting pitcher went yard...the first home run in his career.

After three games that were nail biters, especially Saturday nights. it was nice to see the Phillies put some runs on the board, and play long ball.

The first championship Philadelphia has seen in over 25 years could happed tonight. I am sure the town will be rocking all day.

Oh and the Eagles had a nice W yesterday. Brian Westbrook looked no worse for the wear after missing a couple of games with injuries. He scored twice, rushing for a 167 yards (which almost his total yardage cumulative for the season), and catching six balls for 42 yards. Donovan McNabb threw for 253 yards, but was only 19/34, with a lot of his misses being thrown way over his receivers heads, which is uncharacteristic for McNabb since most of his misses generally are at his receivers feet. One nice thing to see was McNabb running the ball. Even though he only had 25 yards on six carries, one of them being a touchdown, he showed how much of a threat he can be with his legs.

So it was a good day to be a sports fan here in the Philly area. Let's hope Cole Hamels can pitch another gem tonight, and the Phillies bring home a championship to the city.

It's been long enough

--gfo

24 October, 2008

Hit The Damn Ball

Especially with runners in scoring position. 1 run in 28 bats with RISP, will not win games, nor bring a parade down Broad Street.

The Phillies need to wake their bats up, the long ball has all but disappeared and the hits they do get aren't picked up by the other players.

Not panicking yet, but the lack of offense from the Phillies is a bit scary. Hopefully a day off, and home field advantage will bring the bats to life.

I'd love to see the Phillies win the next three here.

Disappointing loss last night, but that is why there are seven games.

23 October, 2008

One Down Three To Go

Despite leaving a boat load of men on base, J-Roll and Ryan Howard, not being factors the Phillies squeaked out a W last in the opening game of the fall classic, 3-2. Cole Hamel, Ryan Madson, and Brad Lidge pitched near perfect baseball last night, even though the run support wasn't there.

Game two tonight, let's hope the momentum from last night carries the Phil's to a win, but most importantly, let's hope the bat's come to life.

--gfo

18 October, 2008

Congratulations To The Glenolden Gonzo's



For winning the Prospect Park 9-10 year soccer tournament. They had to play four games in a five hour time frame with only one 45 minute break, and that was between game two and three. They won by scores of 4-0, 2-0, 3-1, 2-1 respectively, the latter being the winning game.

The championship game was a nail biter with the winning goal, coming with about one minute left to play. The kids (and parents) were all very proud of their young athletes, who played like and acted like true champions and most importantly were gracious winners and good sports throughout the day.

Our son Michael, plays mostly defense, but today he had a chance to play on the offensive side of the ball, and while he didn't score any goal or have any assists he played very well. He even filled in at goalie in the late stages of game one, after a player from the other team kicked the goalie in the hand while the goalie had possession of the ball. The goalie is one of the best players on the team, he returned to the net in game 2 and finished out the tournament with no apparent problems.

Michael is very excited to be a part of a team that won something, and I give a lot of credit to the coaches for their efforts in coaching the team, they are a credit to the youth club, and do an excellent job with the kids, assuring that each one them plays equal amounts of time.

The pictures above were taken after the tournament win and show the team and coaches with their trophy. All the kids got medals displaying their first place win in the tournament, and they were all ecstatic to be given them

It was a long day for the kids, parents, and coaches, it was in the upper 40's at the first tipoff, and everyone was a little bit on the cold side, but it warmed to more comfortable temperatures as the day progressed.

One funny note that I should add, is that after the final game, the kids dumped a jug of Gatorade on one of the assistant coaches, who was gracious enough to be a part of the celebration, despite the cool weather was a good sport, and the kids had a good laugh about it

Congratulation again to the team, they played their hearts out today, and they should be proud, I know all of the parents are

--gfo

16 October, 2008

World Series Here We Come



After a 15 years absence the Philadelphia Phillies will be returning to the big dance, with an opponent yet to be determined. It was an exciting game and series, and its exciting to the city of Philadelphia for another chance at a championship. The city is in a 25 year championship drop.

Good luck guy, and let's bring one home to the city of brotherly love

picture courtesy of mlb.com


--gfo

05 October, 2008

NLCS Here We Come

Congratulations to 2008 Philadelphia Phillies on advancing to the NLCS for the first time since 1993...Heck I was on the verge of getting married at the time. The Phillies behind a fine pitching performance from Joe Blanton, dispatched the Brewers 6-2 at Miller Park in Milwaukee. Phillies Left Field Pat Burrell led the charge for the Phillies belting two home runs, one a three run shot in the third inning which turned out to be all the Phillies needed. Shortstop Jimmy Rollins got the game started with a lead off home run, and from that moment on, the momentum never seemed to shift to the Brewers.

Next up are the Dodgers who come to town Thursday night, in what is expected to be an interesting series, as the teams split their season match up four games apiece.

Enjoy your days off, and rest up guys. Look forward to an interesting series with the Dodgers.

--gfo

29 September, 2008

Eagles 20 Bears 24

Well, another week, another ugly game. The Eagles lost to the mediocre Chicago Bears 24-20 once again stinking it up on the national stage in prime time. The Eagles were once again without star Brian Westbrook, who was inactive for last night's game with an ankle injury that was sustained during last weeks game.

The offense should some sporadic signs of life, but when they needed the big play, the came up short. WR DeSean Jackson, showed his talents off again, in both running (2-35), and receiving (5-71, 1 TD (this time making sure he was in the end zone this time)), but I will fall short of a coronation ceremony since his muffed punt led to a Bears TD, and on a subsequent punt he let it roll and the Bears were able to down it deep in Eagles territory.

Even the venerable place kicker David Akers missed two field goals, yeah one was from 51 yards out, but the other one bonked off the right upright. The last couple of years his inconsistency has been a problem for the Eagles. The excuse of getting used to a new holder should no longer be a factor. Akers needs to start nailing these field goals. The two misses last night cost the Eagles the game, although the offense lack of putting the ball in the end zone is the bigger issue.

The defense and special teams came up with big games. The special teams making the ever dangerous Devin Hester a non factor in punt returns, although he did almost bust a kickoff return, but was stopped by kicker David Akers on a remarkable play, which almost makes up for his FG misses.

Next week the Eagles host division rival Washington in an important must win game. The Eagles are last in the division and need a division win to keep pace with the Giant and Cowboys. This should be interesting next week, as a game five if necessary in the NLDS would be on Sunday as well at Citizens Bank Park, and if that happens (and I hope it doesn't) parking, etc will be a nightmare, so the best seat for both games will be right here at my house.

The only consolation to yesterday's Eagles loss was that the Cowboy's got smacked by the Redskins.

Looks like its going to be one of those roller coaster seasons yet again.

--gfo

27 September, 2008

2008 National League East Champions

Congratulations to the 2008 Philadelphia Phillies on clinching their second consecutive National League East title today against the Washington Nationals.

Closer Brad Lidge, saved his 41st game is as many games, although it was a nail biter. Shortstop Jimmy Rollins made a remarkable play and turned the first part of the game ending double play, with one out and the bases loaded.

Will have to wait until tomorrow to see if the Dodgers or Brewers are coming to town.

Congratulations guys on a remarkable season, and best of luck in the post season. Let's see if we can end this 25 year championship drought.

--gfo

An Update and analysis

Yesterday I finished up with my outpatient physical therapy (was going x3 days a week). I see the neurosurgeon on Monday, then it's back to the office on Wednesday.

After almost two months since the baclofen pump was implanted there is a dramatic improvement in my leg strength. I think the pump combined with the intensive inpatient and subsequent outpatient PT, plus keep up with a program at home on my non PT days has helped.

What has also helped is the getting a set of articulating ankle braces (AKA AFO's). Shown below, it prevents my foot from dropping, which has been a problem, when ascending and descending steps, or stepping over obstacles around the house, causing stumbles and falls. It is adjustable with a little screw located at the base of the upper part of the brace. I have had the braces nearly a week, and are still getting used to them. I did a session of PT with the braces and she was happy with how they worked for me. I will still be using the cane when I leave the house, but that is for my own security. The braces keep me pretty steady.



After being out of work for what will be two months, I have mixed feelings about going back. I know that I am ready to go back, but getting back into the swing of things, and trying to maintain my PT program is going to be a challenge especially with the both of the kids involved in sports and scouts, but my PT advised me to do what I can when I can as time allows.

I have to say that doing the inpatient and then outpatient PT was probably more helpful than the pump itself. Getting the pump implanted instilled the confidence in me that I had lost. Once I got back into an exercise routine, it all came back to me, and the drive and enthusiasm that I used to have came right back and I was very good with keeping up with my at home programs, and while I was in therapy sessions, I listened well, and adhered to all the suggestions. Sure I had some setbacks, and I will say that I was harshest critic, my PT team, and family were my biggest supporters and kept me motivated and on track. I have a great program that I will be following and as noted above will try and keep to despite my time limitations.

So a big thanks to Marianna and Dianne for all their help, support and direction. I could not have done it without you.

Go Phillies, and Go Eagles

--gfo

21 September, 2008

Eagles 15 Steelers 6

In a game that Stillers QB Ben Roethlisberger spent a good portion of the game on his back (sacked nine times) or running for his life, in what ultimately became a game of field position, the Eagles prevailed over their cross state rivals 15-6.

QB Donovan McNabb, delayed his return in the second half, and backup QB Kevin Kolb, got a chance for a few snaps. Despite McNabb's delayed return, he was pretty effective today, completing 24 of 35 passes, but only for 196 yards, and one touchdown. With that TD pass, McNabb surpassed infamous QB Ron Jaworksi for most TD passes by an Eagles QB (176). Most of McNabb's passes were short dump offs, and anytime he tried throwing the long ball, it was too long, too short, picked off, or off target.

One big concern is the apparent ankle injury to RB Brian Westbrook who left the game early in the first quarter. Looking at replay's of the injury, it looks like he stepped on one of his own players and may have tweaked it a little bit, but perhaps there is more to it, as he didn't return to the field of play for the remainder of the game.

Any questions that were raised (including your's truly) about Brian Dawkins ability to keep pace, was put to rest as he came up big today, compiling five tackles, two assists, one sack and one forced fumble.

My player of the game was former Australian rules football player turned NFL punter Sav Rocca, who came up with a couple of booming punts three of which pinned the Stillers deep in Eagles territory, one of which led to a two point safety. Kicker David Akers secured the victory with a late 31 yarder field goal

Overall a pretty lackluster offensive performance by both teams, the Eagles defense came up big today, getting in quarterbacks faces, and holding the Stillers less than 200 yards of total offense.

Next week the Eagles travel to Chicago to face the 1-2 Bears in a Sunday night prime time game.

Let's hope the Westbrook injury isn't to serious, Buckhalter and Bookers are good backup and role players but the absence of Westbrook was definitely felt today.

--gfo

16 September, 2008

Eagles 37 Cowboys 41

Although the outcome wasn't exactly the way Eagles fans would have liked to have been, in one of the most exciting and highest scoring MNF games in a long time, the Cowboys bettered the Eagles by a score of 41-37

The first half of the game was a clinic in scoring, as both teams, put a combined total of 54 points, with the lead changing hand multiple times.

Once the second half got under way, the tone and momentum of the game slowed down immensely.

The Donovan McNabb that is so famous for his line drives into ground, and over throws came out in force in the second quarter. After a near perfect game this week, as well as a first half last night, he fell right back into his old ways, as well as being a part of two fumbles, one of which probably cost the game, as the Cowboys scored on the subsequent drive.

The defense played okay, but gave up way too many points. Brian Dawkins, as much as I love the guy, and what he has brought to this team over the years, got burned too many times yesterday. His age is definitely starting too show, and as much as an asset his veteran leadership is too this team, his on field skills are drastically weakening, and are becoming a liability. Of course next week, he could come out like a beast and have a phenomenal game, and I as well as lot of others will eat crow.

As exciting as the game was, I would have liked to have seen the Eagles come out with a W, especially in Dallas. It was nice that TO was shut down in the second half after his big TD

Probably beating a dead horse here, but DeSean Jackson's bonehead play that negated a touchdown, was just plain stupid, and I am sure that Coach Reid can and will give him an earful about that, so there is no reason for me to preach about that. Thank goodness B-West punched it in on the next play, at least the Eagles salvaged Jackson's stupidity.

So the Eagles are 1-1 now, with the Stillers (sic) coming into town Sunday for a intrastate match up.

--gfo

08 September, 2008

An Open Post To The DNC, RNC, and All Other PAC's

Enough of the attack ad's, he said, she said, and finger pointing. I want to hear and read about substance and what your plans are to move this country forward, and what your candidates stand for, what they are against, what they are going to do if elected.

I don't give a shit about, how much, or how little experience the candidates have to say about each other, or how many houses they may or may not own, if their spouse is a good dancer, speaker, parent, etc.

Substance, is what I want to hear about. Give me an idea of who you are, what you want to do, what you don't want to do. Foreign and domestic policy, taxes, gas prices. I'd also like to see a candidate that does not say what they think people want to hear, and I'd also like to see a candidate that isn't in bed with its party, big donors, and special interest. You work for and are elected by the people. Sometimes politicians forget that.

I know I am just some forty something working middles class schmuck from suburban Philadelphia, who has this tiny blog that post's on a variety of subjects, that not to many people read, but I felt the need to get this message out.

Now I feel better

--gfo

07 September, 2008

Eagles 38 Rams 3

The Philadelphia Eagles sent a message to their NFC East confreres today, by stomping the St. Louis Rams 38-3, in the opening game of the 2008 season, as well as the home opener. QB Donovan McNabb came out with gun's ablazing, despite not having his two starting wide receivers. McNabb went 21/33 for 361 yards, and three touchdowns. The Eagles racked up a total net yardage of 522.

Rookie DeSean Jackson was impressive in his NFL debut, catching 6 balls for 106 yards, and was equally impressive in returning punts, returning eight punts for 97 yards, and almost busting one loose for a touchdown.

Also, the Eagles defense played with a vengeance, holding the Rams to only a field goal, and holding the Rams to only eight first downs, and a 166 net yardage of offense.

The Eagles really impressed me today, in almost of completely mistake free game, save for a few drops by LJ Smith, and a rare two fumbles (but not turnovered) by Brian Westbrook. Both offense and defense played very well, and I hope this continues through the season.

It was nice to see Kevin Kolb get some rep's in as well, although I would have like to have seen him throw the ball more than he did, instead of just handing the ball off.

Big test next Monday night in prime time, as the Eagles travel to Dallas to take on the Cowboys in an early season NFC East match up.

Well done Coach Reid, and staff, let's keep the good times rolling, and I'd like to see the voracity next week in Dallas.

--gfo

03 September, 2008

Thoughts On Back To School

Well it's that time of year, back to school. My kid's went back today, started with a ½ day, and the remainder of the week is full days. The Mrs. started back yesterday.

This was the first time since my kids have been in school, that I was home to see them off. The sentimentality of the first day of school has long worn off for them since they now each in seventh and fourth grade (hard to believe the former)

It was actually nice, to have the house to myself, so I could truly relax and get the rest I so truly need. I didn't have PT today, but on days that I don't have it, save for Sunday's, I have a PT approved program that I do here at home. So I went through that routine early this morning, then spent the rest of the morning watching mindless action movies until the kid's came home from school. I took them out to lunch as a little treat.

Rewind to yesterday, when I got the distinct honor of taking the kiddies school supply shopping. Our day began around 1000 as we headed out to our first of many stops, Wal-Mart. We spent nearly an hour getting most of the copy books, folders, pens, pencils, rulers, tape, glue, crayons, and lord knows what else. After stuffing our cart with those supplies we ventured over to the backpack section to choose the schoolbag and lunch boxes. The boy took about 8.5 seconds to pick out both of his (now he is my kinda of shopper). The girl on the other hand, spent 10-15 minutes looking through the different types and styles, and could find nothing that met her style needs. So I decided to put an end to the madness and told the girl that we could go somewhere else (Kohl's) to find something more her style. So after this utter torture we venture over to the check out, and end the first of what would be many store visits that day.

On the way over to Kohl's, we happen upon a Staples, where I suggested we stop in and see if they have the marble copy books...Wal-Mart was out. Fortunately Staples did have said items, and we in and out in ten minutes.

Now onto Kohl's. We get there, and of course the girl is in heaven, as the backpacks, just happen to be located in the section of the store that has her sizes. I kept reminding her that we are here for a schoolbag, not wardrobe (they wear uniforms, so no additional clothes were necessary, at least according to me). Once she finally settled on her schoolbag it was time for her to choose a lunch box. Kohl's, had none that coordinated with her newly acquired schoolbag, so she decided that we needed to go to another store. I must add, that never in my years of school did I worry nor care if my lunch box matched my schoolbag, as an example of that, my boys choice of said items is a good example of the lack caring for coordination. As a reward to myself for enduring this school supply shopping adventure, I purchase a couple of Eagles t-shirts, since the one's I had are now rags. Total time in store, approximately 30 minutes.

Off to store #3, CVS, to see if they have a stylish, coordinated lunch box for the girl....thankfully they did, or she would have been brown bagging. Total time in store, about 15 minutes.

It was then off to the deli, to buy lunch meat for the week, a quick but necessary stop.

Thankfully and finally we headed home.

We carried all the bags upstairs...in one trip, had lunch, and then your's truly park his ass on the love seat, where it remained for most of the remaining part of the day.

Lesson's learned:
  • I have no fashion sense, according to my girl
  • School shopping is about as exciting as underwear shopping
  • The boy is like me, he sees what he wants, grabs and goes, no lurking, unlike the girl who says you need to look and shop.
  • He who has the debit card makes the rules
  • School supplies for girls in seventh grade need to coordinate.
  • Picking out a lunch box and school bags is one of the biggest decisions of the school year.
  • I still hate shopping, always have, always will.

So all in all in what a tiring day, only made worse by having PT at 1900, for an hour. Your's truly was a tired pup last night.

So the moral of the story, is that I am glad the kids are back in school, so now I can truly follow doctor's orders and rest and relax, which I intend to do.

--gfo

22 August, 2008

Well It Wasn't Much

But it's a start. This morning, I started the at home part of my physical therapy, which was designed by the Moss PT and concurred too by my outpatient PT.

I started off with 15 minutes on the bike, which actually turned out to be a better ride than I thought it would. Cranked out, 4.81 miles, in 15.12. Came in at a respectable average speed of 19.00 MPH.

I had to get my monthly Solu-Medrol IV, just after I finished, so that interrupted the PT portion on my planned morning.

Once the IV ran through (takes about an hour), I went downstairs, grabbed my weight gloves and started my PT routine.

Earlier this week, I purchased a 65cm exercise ball which I used inpatient, and they recommended that I purchase one to use at home.

I did my routines, (all with dumbbells) whilst sitting on the ball; bicep curls, tricep curls, lateral raises. The routine called for 2 sets of 10-20 per exercise. The weight was about 15 pounds per dumbbell. I breezed through the bicep curls, at 20 each. The tricep exercise were a little tougher and I only managed 15 per. The lateral raises were the toughest exercise of them all, I only managed 10 per, and the last couple were a struggle. The idea of doing these exercise while sitting on the ball was to help with my balance. I only had one minor slip, nothing major, I am doing the exercises in a corner in my living so I can catch myself if I lose my balance.

After the exercises on the ball, I went to the floor and started doing bridges with the weights. By this point my arms were fried and I only managed about five reps on each arm x2.

The last exercise was to squats with the ball in the corner. Did two sets of 15 with no problems.

Probably over did it a little bit today, will try it again tomorrow, but may space it a little so I don't get as tired.

The best part of the day, was hoping back on the bike, my old friend was just as good as when I last rode it, and I think it was happy to be ridden again.

I am tired now, but I know what I need to do, and have a good plan, and most of guidance to help me along

--gfo

14 August, 2008

Well After Two Weeks

I am finally home...actually came home yesterday. After five days at Jefferson Hospital, and nine days at Moss Rehab, I was cleared to come home. The surgery itself went well, and the time in the hospital was a little on the rough side, most pain and discomfort.

On Monday the 4th, I was transferred up to Moss Rehab via ambulance, and the actual rehab process began the next day.

I must say that the time spent at Moss was very productive and in just the short amount of time I was there, I made remarkable progress,

I will begin outpatient rehab next week, just to continue and reinforce what I have learned and to continue to relearn some of the things that I have lost since I have been diagnosed with MS.

More to come later, just wanted to post a quick update to let everyone know how I am doing.

Thanks to all for your thoughts and prayers.

--gfo

16 July, 2008

On The Utley F-Bomb

A lot is being said of Chase Utley's faux pas Monday night during the introductions prior to the home run derby. After he was introduced, he got some boos from some of the local New Yorkers, in which he responded Fuck you, under his breath but because he was wearing a microphone for ESPN, it was picked up. No less than an hour later, it started being posted on blogs and you tubes, and they Philly bashing started.

Was Chase out of line, yes, he later apologized for the remark, although he really didn't say it that loud and it was merely a knee jerk response to a hostile crowd.

Of course because Chase is a Philly player, the Philly bashers had a field day with it, and all the past incidents (snowballs at Santa, cheering Michael Irvin, etc) started coming to the forefront.

I am sick and tired of Philly getting this bad rap when fan and player behavior in other cities is equally as bad, and under reported. I remember reading an article in Sports Illustrated earlier this year about student behavior at college basketball games and how they torment the other teams, and sometime even target visiting players families. Yet incidents like those are hardly noticed and reported, and are tolerated by the schools.

Athletes aren't perfect, and Chase Utley's muttering Fuck You under his breath, but only being heard because he had a microphone (which seems to be getting a lot of folks in trouble lately, paging Jesse Jackson) on it caught the attention of the national media. I am sure that during most professional sports games that a lot of similar things are said all the time, to the other players, the fans, and whomever else is annoying said player. They are adults playing at a high level, high intensity and with a lot of emotion.

Although Chase's comment was in hindsight wrong, in the context of speaking from a Philly fan's perspective, I think it was an appropriate comment...he just got caught.

No harm done, and let's move on and get down to the business of playing baseball.

Well done Chase, you are having a hell of a year, and screw what the rest of fans are saying about you, especially the loser New York fans

--gfo

11 July, 2008

Upcoming Surgery

Related to my blog post from 15 May 2008, I finally got to meet with the neurosurgeon a few weeks and I am scheduled for the Baclofen Pump, surgery on 31 July 2008. This will take will place at Thomas Jefferson University Hospital here in Philadelphia. After a few days in the hospital, I will be transferred to MossRehab hospital for a few weeks to get some physical therapy which came as a bit of surprise, but once it was explained to me the reason why, it made a lot of sense.

I will be out of work for about 6-8 weeks. Not sure how long I will be in rehab for and my subsequent time at home, so my actual time off could be more or less...hopefully the latter. I have the ability to work from home, so, if necessary I maybe able to split time between home and the office or work out some sort of other compromise, or just transition back slowly.

I have mixed feeling about going under the knife for this procedure, but one thing I can say with great certainty, is that something needs to be done. I have been having more issues with falls and general weakness overall in the last couple of weeks, so the implantation will certainly help.

Overall, I have not really given myself much of a chance to think about the mental aspect and preparation that I think I need. I am scheduled for some readmission's testing this coming Monday, so maybe things will then start to get the brain spinning.

So my summer will be cut short, but hopefully my fall will be better and there will be less of them, pun intended.

--gfo

07 July, 2008

On Ryan Howard

The Phillies highest paid and least productive player is having a less than stellar year, in fact I will goes as far saying he is having a shitty year. Here are his stats through last nights game (source: CBS Sportsline), against the devastating extra inning loss against the Mets, where he was 1/6, his lone hit being a single, but he struck four times, a couple of times in clutch moments of the game

  • At Bats: 337
  • Total Hits: 75 (38 singles)
  • Doubles: 12
  • Triples: 2
  • Home Runs: 23
  • RBI's: 76
  • Batting Average: .223
  • Slugging Percentage: .475
  • Strikeouts: 123
  • Base on Balls: 44 (9 intentional)
  • On Base Percentage: .313

Working some of my own numbers here is what I come up with. Based on his current statistics, Howard is more likely to strike out than to get a hit. Of his 337 at bats, he has struck 36% of the time, versus his over all batting average, 22.4%. Of his home run total (23), he hits home runs only 7% of his at bats. His singles percentage is only 11% of his bats.

In Comparison, here is the Phillies other slugger Pat Burrell's numbers:

  • At Bats: 287
  • Total Hits: 80 (37 singles)
  • Doubles: 20
  • Triples: 2
  • Home Runs: 21
  • RBI's: 53
  • Batting Average: .279
  • Slugging Percentage: .582
  • Strikeouts: 70
  • Base on Balls: 66 (1 intentional)
  • On Base Percentage: .412

Howard's OBP, is about average for the team overall, which is .313, and his slugging percentage of .475 is above the team's .437 percentage. He does however have a national league leading 76 RBI's which is very respectable, but could you imagine what his numbers would be if even 25% of his strikeouts were hits, or if he worked the count more.

What bothers me the most, and probably most Phillies fans, is his strikeouts. A lot of the strikeouts he seems to swing at really bad pitches, especially low and outside breaking balls. In my mind, I am comparing him Dennis Haysbert's character Pedro Cerrano in the movie Major League, who couldn't hit a breaking ball to save his life.

The team has a total of 608 strikeouts. His 123 strikeouts account for 20% of the total strikeouts. Pat Burrell has the second most strikeouts, 70, or 12% overall, but Burrell is batting .279, 21 home runs, and Pat's hits are about equal, 37 singles, 20 doubles, 2 triples, but the deal breaker for me is that Pat Burrell's is a much better defensive player than Howard. Burrell is having a much better season than Howard, and is a more consistent player, but mostly and much more mature player, which Howard seems to lack (read his new found wealth has gotten to his head)

Howard won a ten million dollar arbitration hearing before the season started, and at this point, it looks like he should give some of that money back.

Ryan needs to find his bat, and be more productive at the plate, and get back to doing what he does best. Overall he is driving in the runs, but his strikeouts, especially in critical situations is deplorable, and unacceptable. His arbitration deal was for this year only, and if he wants to continue making the kind of money that he does, he needs to be more productive at the plate and on the field. Maybe some extra time in the cages would do him some good, or bring in Mike Schmidt to help Ryan find his bat.

This team has the makings of a winner, and hopefully Ryan will start contributing more at the plate. He can't count on other members of the team to continue to pick him up, which they have done.

--gfo

28 June, 2008

Floods - What A Difference

From an email that I got earlier today. As politically incorrect as it appears to be, it is balls on accurate:

Something to think about..it is a social commentary on the difference of two communities with a similar disaster, although I am sure some idiot is going to say "Hate speak".
  • Where are all the Hollywood celebrities holding telethons asking for help in restoring Iowa and helping the folks affected by the floods?
  • Where is all the media asking the tough questions about why the federal government hasn't solved the problem? Asking where the FEMA trucks (and trailers) are?
  • Why isn't the Federal Government relocating Iowa people to free hotels in Chicago?
  • When will Spike Lee say that the Federal Government blew up the levees that failed in Des Moines?
  • Where are Sean Penn and the Dixie Chicks?
  • Where are all the looters stealing high-end tennis shoes and big screen television
  • When will we hear Governor Chet Culver say that he wants to rebuild a "vanilla" Iowa, because that's the way God wants it?
  • Where is the hysterical 24/7 media coverage complete with reports of cannibalism?
  • Where are the people declaring that George Bush hates white, rural people?
  • How come in 2 weeks, you will never hear about the Iowa flooding ever again?

HOW COME THERE IS SUCH A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THIS FLOODING AND THAT OF NEW ORLEANS?

  • When N.O. flooded, it was a racist plan to wipe out black people.
  • Now that white people are getting flooded out, we need to investigate .. who?
  • I heard a dimwit on CNN yesterday say that this reminded him of New Orleans. How?
Outside of being flooded, there is no looting, no people wandering the streets looking for meanness, no grocery carts being shoved through the water carrying stolen big screen TVs, no people sitting on the tops of their houses waiting on the government to come and get them, no police abandoning their posts, no Iowans bitching how the government and George Bush is failing them. There is not one damn thing, other than water, that is similar to New Orleans.

The streets in Des Moines are empty. People left when they were told to evacuate. They didn't whine, bitch or blame the Government for the broken levees. They did what responsible people do in a crisis. Some people who didn't even live in the flood areas came and filled sandbags to help their neighbors.

The actions of the people of Des Moines and the other Iowan cities only makes the actions of the people of New Orleans look worse.


--gfo

24 June, 2008

Rest In Peace

George Carlin. George passed away Sunday night at the age of 71. He was one of the funniest comedians I have ever seen and heard. His candor tell like it is, non-political correct approach to comedy was not only funny but got you thinking about life and how funny the stupid things really are.

You will be missed George. Our lost is heaven's gain.

--gfo

06 June, 2008

A Subtle Change To The Blog

But one I needed to do. In my blog description, I changed the working stiff age from thirty something to forty something.

--gfo

05 June, 2008

Thoughts On Forty


Well yesterday, I officially turned 40 years old. Where most people who turn 40 react in differently, I am taking a different approach, for me. As many of my readers already know, I have had a plethora of medical problems in the middle and late part of my 30's, so turning 40 was in mind a perhaps a chance to start anew. We'll see how things play out this. I know I am facing two surgeries, one to replace to defibrillator and the other to a baclofen pump in to help me with my muscle spasticity.

I have a few other challenges and issues that need to be addressed in the coming months, mostly related to my cognitive impairments that I have been facing. I have been putting off (read, stalling) on calling the doctors to find out how I go about addressing some of issues that came up during my neuropsych testing in January. I need to address these but I want to get the pump surgery done first before I subject myself to more pain and suffering.

I am mostly trying to keep a positive outlook, at least on the outside, I still have my moments where I feel lousy, tired, and have general fatigue, but I persevere and plod through.

As for the fortieth festivities. Tuesday, my twin brother and I, along with our wives went to the Phillies/Reds game. We had great seats, and were surprised (well I sort of expected it), that the wives had arranged for us to have happy birthday sung to us, and our names were posted on the scoreboard. We also got a couple of nice hat's, but most of all saw a great baseball game, the Phillies won 3-2.

The picture shown above, was what my office looked like when I walked in yesterday, compliments of my co-workers. I even had a set of beads that I had to wear all day that accentuated the fact that I did turn 40. We had a cake, and I got some funny cards, which are on display on my top shelf.
When I got home, I played some PlayStation with the boy until the Mrs got home, and I then proceeded to open my presents (two swimsuits, and four Phillies tickets), and birthday cards, then we had a nice simple dinner of hamburgers and hot dogs. Then the big treat, Carvel ice cream cake.

After that spent a nice relaxing evening at home, although I went to bed early as I was up late the night before...or I am getting old.
So far being 40 isn't too bad, let's see how the next ten years goes.
--gfo

27 May, 2008

Yet Another Day Off

Tomorrow, the boy has 102.3 fever, and has yakked a couple of times in the last four days. So I chose to stay home tomorrow. I have work that I brought home with me, so I will spend part of the day trying to stay ahead of the work curve.

They only have a few more weeks of school left, then if there are any problems the Mrs will be here.

I just hope that I don't waste another day like I did last time he was sick.

--gfo

26 May, 2008

Lest We Forget




The true reason that we celebrate this holiday. We honor the men and women who made the ultimate sacrifice to keep this country free. Remember to take time out of your busy day to say a prayer, to the memory of those who gave it all, and if you see a veteran today, say thank you.

--gfo

21 May, 2008

On Gas Prices

What the hell is going on. I just saw the oil closed over $130.00/barrel for the first time today. I paid 3.819/gallon yesterday to fill my car. I have gotten to the point that I am trying to get into the habit of filling the cars when the tanks are at the ½ way mark, just so it's not as big a dent in the wallet. My car has an 18 gallon tank, the Mrs, has 19.8, so filling an empty tank, really empties the wallet.


With a holiday weekend coming up, I am sure that by the end of the week we will see prices around the 3.90 range if not higher. I don't know how some people do it. Working stiffs like me, are once again getting screwed by the big Corporations, the government (with all the frigging taxes they have on gas). What we stiffs supposed to do, we need to drive to work, sure there are options and alternatives, but at some point you need your car to get around.

I'd like to see some more actions from our government instead of rhetoric and finger pointing. I am for independence on foreign oil, but the technology is in its infancy and while it may solve the problem in the long term, we need something done now, or pretty soon, nobody is going anywhere

This is getting ridiculous. My wallet gets smaller, and the oil companies and the OPEC nations are getting fatter.

--gfo

On The Philadelphia Police Firings/Suspensions

Recently there was an incident here in the city of brotherly love, where a bunch police officers, used excessive force on three shooting suspects, the whole incident was caught on video tape by a news helicopter. This incident occurred only a few days after a fellow police officer, Stephen Liczbinski only a few days before. Also at the time of this beating, one of the accomplices from the Liczbinski was still at large, although the shooter of the officer was shot and killed by police the day of the killing.

Granted police tensions were high, they had just lost one of their own, the second in less than a year, and the men who were beaten were fleeing police, and were certainly not outstanding, law abiding citizens, but the reaction from the local media, and populace was way overblown.

Did the police overreact, probably, but so did the police commissioner and the mayor.

Of course the race card is being played, surprise, surprise.

Bottom line Four officers were fired, and four others were suspended by Police Commissioner Charles Ramsey. The local DA is reviewing the case for possible criminal charges, and I am sure the federal government will take a look as well. Then of course there will more than likely be a civil case, where the beating victims will sue everyone and anyone remotely involved in the case.

Personally, I believe Commissioner Ramsey reacted too swiftly, since all of the officers were white, and the victims were black, I believe Ramsey's actions were done in the interest of keeping peace on the streets...not that firing/suspending officers will help keep peace on the street (the crime statistics speak for themselves), but there seems to be a lack of due process here. All of the officers should have been suspended, pending a thorough investigation, by people independent of the city, and police department.

Could you imagine if the criminal justice system worked this rapidly (actually it wouldn't be a bad thing), a lot of bad guys would be off the street and behind bars where they belong. let's see you caught doing something, and within a week you are in jail.

Those who know me, know that I am big supporter of the police, so obviously I am biased, but I believe that the police were wronged in this situation, and betrayed by a commissioner and mayor who think they are acting swiftly to handle a volatile situation, clearly reacted to fast.

Let's see how this plays out. My personal opinion is that all the officer will be reinstated, which they should, and some reforms in use of use of force will occur, and people will still be pissed off, but you can't please everyone.

--gfo

15 May, 2008

Sorry It's Been Awhile

Since my last blog update, this time of year is a very hectic with two kid's in sports, a busy work schedule, and just overall life issues.

On the MS front, what a month it's been. Two weeks ago I went to the neurologist office for what I thought was to be a simple albeit slightly uncomfortable procedure. The procedure involved a spinal tap, which then then would inject via a catheter a medicine directly into my spine that would help me with the muscle spasms and weakness that I have in my legs, mostly my right side.

This is a test to see if I would a candidate for a Baclofen Pump, yet another electronic device to be implanted in me.

Long story short, the two neurology fellows were unable to get the spinal tap, total number of attempts was four, plus at least that many shots of lidocaine to numb the area. That area of my back looked like a dartboard, plus I was sore as hell.

After the fourth attempt, the neurologist decided that I have been tortured enough and that I should come back again, but this time have the procedure down under using flouroscopy to aid in getting the catheter into my spine.

So last Wednesday, I went in for that procedure. After some clerical, and bureaucratic foul ups, the test was done, the medicine was given, and the results were very positive. The radiologist, got the spinal tap on the first try, and I had very little discomfort, as opposed to my experience the week before where I was utterly tortured.

About an hour after the procedure, the neurology fellow came in and tested me again, and the increase in muscle strength, and lack of spascity was noticeably different. We discussed the implantation of the baclofen pump, and decided that it was a good idea, and I green lighted the idea. It will take a couple of weeks, for the doctors to review everything, before I get on the schedule for the actual surgery...side note, at some point this year I am due for a defibrillator change, so I will be opened up twice this year. I imagine sometime in June this will be done.

While the fact of having another foreign object in my body and a catheter in my spine doesn't sound like a lot of fun, I am at a point right now that something needs to be done to help. I was honestly hoping for an injectable medication, since that is less invasive, and has less risks, but we will see what long term benefits the pump brings and hopefully gives me some more mobility.

On the cognitive front, I have noticed, rather the kid's have noticed that I am having more brain farts than usual, and they are picking up on them, where I am not. I need to discuss with the doctor what course of action needs to be done to remedy this. Also, I have been having more cases of the dropsies, I broke a coffee mug, and dropped a few kitchen items the other day.

So I keep plugging along one day at a time, I have felt pretty good this week, have had more energy than usual, mostly in the morning, still get tired mid-afternoon, but I feel like my mornings have been very productive.

That's it for now, more to come

--gfo

15 April, 2008

Welcome To America

Your Holiness Pope Benedict XVI. Hope you have an enjoyable stay.

The people of America are anxiously awaiting your arrival and look forward to visit

--gfo

27 March, 2008

My New Poll

At the top right portion of my blog. A friend of our's has a sign in the kitchen that read's I kiss better than I cook...which is this case must be true because she could burn an ice cube.

I thought it would be an interesting poll question and would like to see how the readers think they compare.

Let's wait and see

--gfo

25 March, 2008

New Cell Phones For All

Well after over two years of having the same cell phone, I decided to upgrade. My old phone worked fine, but I was eligible for a free one, through Verizon Wireless so I decided to take advantage of the offer. I decided to go with a Samsung Aliastmu740. I liked this phone, because you could flip it open in a landscape mode, and it has a full QWERTY keyboard. I has a camera and video recorder and is capable of getting the VZW V Cast and Navigator. One of my favorite features is the Bluetooth. Sure its geeky looking, but the convenience of not having a wire for the headset is great. I have had the bluetooth for about for a week, and I really like it.

Since I upgraded my phone, I got one for the Mrs and we caved and got one for our 11 year old. For them I got the Samsung SCH-u340. The Mrs is still getting used to text messaging. Our daughter had no problem getting the hang of it, and is getting quite good at it...gulp.

So everyone save for the boy has a new phone, and is enjoying it.

The decision to get our daughter a phone was one that we thought through for awhile. We will keep an eye on her usage especially the text messaging. Since she is getting older we felt it was a good time for her to have one, especially now that she is going out more. Hopefully she will be responsible with it. She did go through a period when she first got it that she was calling and texting everyone, which I expected her to do, but now the newness has worn off, and she is using it as we expect her to.

--gfo

21 March, 2008

Philadelphia Auto Show 2008

Another late post (about six weeks to be exact), in what is becoming a yearly tradition at the Cappy abode, is a boy's day out at the Pennsylvania Convention to view the annual Philadelphia Auto Show. This year we were accompanied by my brother in law who also happens to be a car nut like the boy and me.

The highlight of the show for me, was seeing the Mustang Bullitt, here is picture of the badge on the back of the car. This car is beautiful, and I was glad to actually see one in person, since there will only be a limited number produced, and it will probably be my only opportunity to see one up close and personal The Philly show had plenty of mustang's this year, and here is a great picture of the boy and I in front of one.

and here is one with my BIL and the boy in front of one of the new Jeep's (he is a Jeep nut)



The highlight of the show was seeing the new Dodge Challenger which is set to go on sale later this year. The car was partitioned off, and this was as close as I could get to the car, but what a beauty it is. Dodge should have lots of success with this car once it goes on sale.


We spent about five hours walking through the various hall's and staring, gawking, drooling, etc at the car's that were on display. It was a fun day for the three of us. I took over seventy pictures, and was quite tired after all that walking. I always enjoy getting a chance to view the different cars, from the $13,000.00 Smart Car to the $250,000.00+ Lamborghini's, Ferrari's and Maserati's

I am befuddled as to why the automotive press ignores this show every year, and that the auto makers, don't make more of an effort to make this a bigger event. From what I hear, over 250,000 people visit this event every year. Philadelphia is a big market, and they day we were there, it was jam packed with people of all ages. Of course my usual complaint was the price of concessions, which is typical of any Philadelphia run event no matter what the venue. Why they charge so much for food, and drinks is beyond me. Aramark must have made a killing during the duration of the auto show

It was a nice day out, and for $10.00/person, you definitely get a bang for your buck.

pictures from my personal collection

--gfo

20 March, 2008

On Obama and Race

A lot is being said on the comments of Barack Obama's pastor Jeremiah Wright, and the fact that candidate Obama refuses to acknowledge, condemn, Reverend Wright's statements. Instead he chooses to spin it like any other candidate does.

He can come out and say all he wants about race relations in this country, but to he himself be associated with a man of the cloth who makes such outrageous comments like the does, and then for Obama to say, well I wasn't that for that sermon, or that wasn't what he says when I am there is just plain ludicrous. He must really think that most American's are idiots.

Of course the Obama supporters are spinning this their own way and most are drinking the same Kool Aid.

If Obama was smart, he would disassociate himself from Reverend Wright, condemn what he says, and most importantly leave that church altogether. He could restore some credibility to himself and his campaign.

Side note, I am not an Obama supporter, nor will I vote for him if he is the candidate. I just find it hysterical how he is allowing this whole situation implode on itself, and act as if nothing is wrong.

What's even funnier is the whole Democratic party imploding on itself. Their convention should be interesting to say the least.

In this blogger's humble opinion race is still an issue in this country only because those of color choose to make it that way.

--gfo

08 March, 2008

Five Years (and one day) Ago

Hard to believe its been that long since I was diagnosed with Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy a mitral valve regurgitation, and a week later, they found that I had a condition known as a myocardial bridge.

All three conditions subsequently changed my life then as I knew it. I had to give up a running career that I had so much enjoyed, and my EMS days abruptly ended as well, which was perhaps the most heartbreaking of all (no pun intended)

It took a few years, many hospitalizations, a defibrillator implant, a couple of different doctors, and lot's of different medication combinations, but for the last two years, things have been mostly stable with only two overnight hospitalizations.

I am due for a new defibrillator this year, probably over the summer.

It was very frustrating at first dealing with the symptoms, the unknown answers, and most of all the life changing events that I had to deal with. The toughest challenge of them all was dealing with emotional side of everything. The physical things, I could deal, but being so young and having to accept and go through these events, while still maintaining a career, and tending to a family was the toughest part of the diseases.

It took many years to finally accept and live with the heart conditions, and every since the doctors finally found the right medication combination that has helped stabilize everything and bring life to an even keel. I have for the most part maintained a regular exercise program, as well as do things on a physical that are reasonable

and although I was deal another blow, less than a year ago, with the MS diagnosis, I still try and maintain a positive outlook on life...at least on the outside.

I have many people to thank, a few close friends, but most of all, my loving family and beautiful wife. I would also be remiss, without thanking God for giving me the gift of life, and guiding me through these troubling times.

--gfo

23 February, 2008

Boy Oh Boy

Have I been bad about keeping the blog up to date. Its been nearly two months since my last post. A lot of things have been happening, and I have been very busy with work and the kids, hence the lack of keeping the blog up to date.

So here is the cliff note version:
  • A few weeks ago, I took my first business trip to Cambridge, MA. Went for three days, two nights. While I was there, the Mrs broke a bone in her foot
  • I was issued a laptop for the trip by the firm, and asked if I could keep it, use at home. I was given permission, and I set up my house with a wireless network, so I can use the laptop. So far it has been working out well. I am able to do some extra work at home, at night and on the weekends, and keep up with my ever increasing workload
  • Just today, my son scored five goals in his indoor soccer game. He was unstoppable today
  • Baseball and softball registration will be this week
  • The MS has been giving me a rough time of late, and I am suffering through
  • My younger brother got married, and I was his best man
  • The Giants won the Super Bowl, in perhaps one of the most boring games ever, but one of the most exciting finishes in super bowl history
  • A few weeks ago, me, the boy, my brother in law, brother, and nephew attended the Philadelphia Auto Show, and had a blast. I took over 80 pictures
  • The week after the auto show, we went to Monster Jam and saw some monster trucks
  • I actually watched and was somewhat interested in the Daytona 500

That's all I could think of for now. I will try and get better and get the blog more updated.

Hope all is well

--gfo

02 January, 2008

2007: A Retrospective

As with any year, there were a lot of ups and downs, both figuratively and literally. Overall the downs outdrew the ups. Most of the downs came in the results of slips and falls, which although sporadic, and caused no serious injuries save for my ego, were certainly frustrating to deal with.

Of course the big blow came in July, when the neurologist finally dropped the MS bomb on me. Although we both had suspected and expected to finally hear him say it, albeit we did have to ask him directly, was certainly a shock to say the least.

So with that, came monthly IV infusions, which take about 1½-2 hours, and some more questions and further exacerbations of the disease. Most notably cognitive issues, with speaking, reading, and sometimes, typing. The speaking and reading when combined can be most troublesome as I am a lector at our parish, and have had a more than a few faux pas whilst reading. Most of them, were barely noticeable, only to me. I did have a minor flub during the mass of thanksgiving with Cardinal Foley during the first reading, which could very well have been perceived as nerves. I did however nail the second reading.

On the positive side, I am still able to ride my bike although still inside, I managed to crank out, 2,361.30 miles. It could have been more, but due to some physical and mental issues I took some time off, most of it was during the summer, when it was just too hot to ride, and I have to be careful with the heat.

More on the positive, the kids are doing great, both are great students, and are active in sports. I coach my daughters softball team.

The Mrs continues to work as both a teacher and part time nurse, while auspiciously maintaining order in an often chaotic household.

Perhaps the highlight of the year, was the naming of John Patrick Foley to the College of Cardinals, and his subsequent visit to our parish to celebrate mass. It was a very monumental night for my family and me, as well as our entire parish community

No retrospect would complete without at least a mention of the big boned cat. He still manages to get his 21-22 hours of sleep a day. This year he managed to kill at least five mice, and one bird. Four mice were in the house, one and the bird were outside...not too bad for a cat who is sans front claws. He also continues to be a thorn in the Mrs's side, as they clash over the sleeping arrangements...he wants to sleep with us, and she doesn't want him in our room. Its never ending battle.

On the sports front, the Phillies made the post-season for the first time in 14 years, only to be swept in the NLDS. All the excitement was short lived, it was a fun ride for the Phillies this year...side note, they lost their 10,000th game in franchise history, and your's truly was in attendance for the game. Although it's not a record they were happy to break, it was bound to happen in a franchise that has been around as long as they have.

The Eagles finished the year 8-8, missing the playoffs on the tiebreaker. A lot of questions need to be answered about the team, and the off season, should be very interesting to say the least. Most of which will be interesting fodder for the local radio and print media to speculate on, as well as your author.

Stay tuned to this blog, as there will be plenty more coming, in all aspects of sports, MS, and as the race for the White House heats up, I will be posting more and more about that as well.

Enjoy 2008

--gfo